About 6 weeks ago, I was accused of being a bully.
The funny part of the whole stupid story is that the person who accused me then made it impossible for me to defend myself against her allegations – allegations that she made in a public arena which could be seen by many people we both know. I have no idea who read these comments, and whether or not they believed them, and I can’t refute them because she made the allegations, and then blocked me from seeing or responding to them.
I’m having a lot of trouble with this. I find myself thinking way too much about it, and giving moments of my life to this person’s paranoia.
I don’t know how to move past it. How is it that someone can twist my head around and get away with it like this, while thinking I’m the bad guy?